Everyone in this world has got problems there is no one who does not have any problems. so how do we learn to develop the right mindset to solve these problems? by learning to persist despite problems.
What we need to learn most important in life is your attitude toward problems how you deal with the problems of your life.
There are some ways in which you can develop the right mindset to solve any problems which are stated as...
EXPECT PROBLEMS:
In your life if anything goes wrong it will go wrong you or no one can change that. many people when they have any problem they go mad or gets scared or depressed that they have got a problem what are they going to do.
However, the only way to justify your job is that there are problems and which you are solving. otherwise, what's the point of appointing you. if there were no problems then you cant justify why you are getting paid.
Suppose you are going for a long drive and in the middle of nowhere your tire gets punctured and you don't even have extra ones. thus anything can happen that does not mean that you get scared or start crying. so expect problems.
If you are not getting problems you are not progressing because when you proceed only then the problems start arising.
ANTICIPATE PROBLEMS:
When you get a problem anticipate the problem. don't feel surprised or scared. suppose your son calls you and tells you that mom I have failed in math prepare dad and you say your dad is prepared, you get prepared that is when you start anticipating the problem.
No matter how big the problem is just start anticipating the problems.
FACE PROBLEMS:
In this world, most of the peoples are too scared of the problems that they start ignoring the problems. they pretend that it is not even there.
But just by pretending something is not there doesn't make that thing disappear. there was a tv show in which there was a giraffe in the house and the family members go to their work every day pretending that there is no one in their house every day
But that doesn't mean that the giraffe is not there. the same case is with our problems pretending that there isn't one does not make it go away.
So the positive attitude is you face the problem and put it out of the proportions it is only a problem but sometimes see make it a very big deal. sometimes we make a mountain of the molehills.
LEARN FROM THE PROBLEMS:
When you solve a math problem or any problem you learn something from them. so it is all right to make mistakes. but not to make the same mistakes again.
You fall 19 times but get up 20 times.if you stumble learn the secret of better walking
How you learn from the problem ..?
You see it all depends on your attitude. if you keep the proper attitude these problems become blessings in disguise.
If god puts problems in our path it's not because he hates us or wants to torture us he wants us to face these hardships and become a better person by virtue of it. it is God's way of helping us.
However, in our lack of spiritual intelligence, we didn't understand. we also look for somebody to ship away all the problems without realizing that growth and progress happen in facing difficulties and hardships,
So if you have the right attitude every problem can accelerate your growth.
by facing problems you grow physically mentally, emotionally, spiritually in every way.
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